Know why ( The Power of Poetry)
Oct 24th 2022 2 min read
Why do people argue?
Do you pause and catch your breath?
And ask, “What are your three fundamental principles?”
Of worldview, personal outlook, and value
Do you consider these factors seriously?
If they are similar
You are likely to have a fruitful chat
If not, it is more likely to be a spat
What’s the use of argument?
Between persons of different thought levels and values
They will never have a meeting of minds
Even logic, feelings, and reality will turn blind
The human mind is not easily changed
Argument leads to more disagreement and discontent
Into a situation of being belittled
It may end a relationship and leave one bitter.
Silence may be a good response
Silence does not induce anger in the overbearing person
It does not mean that you are wrong
There is no need to prove your worth
There is no necessity to be inclusive in everything
There is no need to win a verbal squabble
That will escalate to more trouble
What is a fruitful chat?
When there is a good feeling between the two
One of ease, connection, and comfort
When you share the three basic ethics
Reflect internally and know
Your worldview, personal outlook, and values
Before you start to argue with another
Then it is more likely to be a good heart talk.