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My Christmas Thoughts In 2022

December 28, 2022 by SUMMER LOTUS Leave a Comment

25th Dec 2022 3 min read

By Rosalind Ho using Canva.com

I always feel a sense of trepidation as the year approaches its final closure. Time again has slipped by fast like a clever thief, taking away my dreams which are half-fulfilled. More so in recent years where we feel more restricted due to the pandemic. However, my usual consolation is “New Year is coming! This time it is going to be different!”

Yes, yes, many times I have uttered this to myself. Not all is lost though.

The pandemic did do some good to me on reflection. It was like a spanner thrust into the wheel of my daily routine and caused me to veer sideways. Into new experiences, new dreams, and new friends.

In this space of three years of greater self-awareness about self-preservation, I have adopted a few skills and interests. I created my website which I had learned, understood how Ecommerce works in the backend, picked up line dancing, worked on my two left feet tendency, made interesting and encouraging friends, became interested in writing, improved my Mandarin, got acquainted with my Japanese language studies again and focused on building my dental practice, to turn it into a group practice since the pandemic had curtailed my traveling plans.

If not for the pandemic, my routine, die-hard life was about work, then travel, meeting up with the usual people, and repeating it. There is always a silver lining to the grey cloud. While bad things happen, one could only keep and must carry on if one cannot alleviate them.

The pandemic and the war have tempered many moods. I saw changes in some people where they have become more agitated, insecure, and even depressed. Yet there were others who carried on, living life as normally as possible, taking appropriate precautions.

I agree with the latter. Don’t stop your activities — those that you love doing, even if they involve interaction with many people due to fear of Covid. The virus makes no announcement, it lurks in the most unlikely places and it does not discriminate. Then, why fear?

The moment we fear death is the moment we start to die, internally. As if living life on a thread. Hesitating in achieving your goals because you have confined yourself to a zone of ‘safety’.

While being cognizant of the bad things that are happening around the world, one can do nothing but pray, be cautious, calm, and carry on. If you can help in some way, do. Otherwise, do not be paralyzed into inaction by negative comments and suggestions thrown around you.

Life still goes on. 2023 may always be the turning point. Things always get worse before it gets better and we may already have hit the bottom. If not, the human spirit must not submit.

A New Year, a new lease of life. Come what may, there are so many worthy goals to aim for and the journey ahead is certainly going to be exciting.

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Little by little

December 13, 2022 by SUMMER LOTUS Leave a Comment

How to defeat procrastination The Power of Poetry)

Dec 13th, 2022 1 min read

By Rosalind Ho using Canva.com

Oh, those few letters,

They are by no means trite.

If you feel that you are on tethers,

You mustn’t give up the fight.

Little by little you begin,

Little by little you gain,

Little by little you work at your goal,

You will get there, Lo and behold!

One step at a time from your idea,

Ignore the pitfalls that may appear.

Start a good habit that must stick,

Repeat it until you feel its kick.

If a bad habit is to stay,

You need to counter in an opposing way.

However hard it is to act,

Do something to start an impact.

Cut out what is in the way,

Set your priorities right each day.

Focus on the task at hand,

Surely things will go as planned.

Set your deadline as you give it all,

As it’s human to delay and stall.

Start now if you still procrastinate,

Or you’ll forever remain obstinate.

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The Emotional Human Being

December 9, 2022 by SUMMER LOTUS Leave a Comment

Dec 9th 2022 1 min read (The Power of Poetry)

By Rosalind Ho using Canva.com

The human being is a core of emotions

Easily moved, hurt and impassioned

Stay strong, stay firm, stay positive

The storms of life do get more active

It can make you lose your heart and soul

Then your body literally goes cold

Light it up, my friend

Face it and make a stand

Do not let them drag you to the ground

Where all hopes and dreams are trounced

Remember it’s just the range of emotions

That may have set you in negative motion

To do what you may regret

And that you will never forget

You are free to choose how you want to feel

Any card that life may deal

Choose to be happy, calm, and serene

In the end, the event passed as if in a scene

The next day brings another task

You now know well that everything is within your grasp.

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