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How Old Photos Can Elicit New Findings About Oneself

September 1, 2023 by SUMMER LOTUS 2 Comments

1st Sept 2023 1 min read

From author’s album

By chance, my friend and I were looking through some old photos

Memories flooded back

A picture of grim me

Unsmiling, pensive, and almost suspicious in all the shots

Of the unspoken requirements to attain excellent grades, social skills, and extracurricular activities

Of which I scored none

Pressured by the confusion of growing up, the need for good grades, competition, and expectations of societal mores

I drifted almost precariously

But by the luck of the times and quiet dreams

And as Providence would have it

I entered the course of my liking

By the skin of my teeth

The choice influenced by my peers

40 years, I am thankful to be in the industry that I have chosen

And I must credit myself for learning to love what I have committed to

To roll with the punches of the changes that were quite remarkable

Today I love my job with its extensive knowledge, amazing tools, and new skills

That is ever-evolving and getting progressive with the times

Dealing a death blow to fear for my patients

And making them more beautiful, confident, and free from pain

Any trade, if you love it and indulge in it, it will love you back

I smile again, yearning for more knowledge and becoming more trusting

In the fact that things just get better and more innovative for mankind

Life is uncertain anyway

But by giving your best, believing in yourself, and staying resolute

It will make your goal attainable and your journey markedly pleasant.

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  1. Wah geok soo says

    September 9, 2023 at 3:27 pm

    Beautifully written and with a picture that speaks a thousand words. A pose of a determined person patiently seeking to achieve the dream of your life and realise that dentistry is your passion afterall. That pose also revealed your potential to make a good military commander to instill discipline military style. Well done, keep it up.

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  2. Wah geok soo says

    September 9, 2023 at 11:17 pm

    So you have been practising dentistry for 40 yrs till now, a choice of study first influenced by your peers but for which you have come to love it more and more each day , having committed yourself to it in the very beginning.

    So it was first a matter of the mind, for which your heart then chose to follow. Although the reverse seems to be the natural case and order of things, that is, the heart has its reasons which the MIND cannot understand but just accepts.

    Your job is noble and it helps people smile better, while relieving them of their tooth pain and to overcome their inferiority complex and become more confident and successful in life.

    And in the process, you, yourself begin to smile more and more each day, even as you face life and its uncertainties, with confidence and poise and seek to overcome all challenges along the way, for no one can take your joys and freedom away, since your dream has now been awakened and the sky is the limit. Keep it up, well done Dr Rosalind.

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